Chef and owner of Food, I Love You, Mpho Phalane shows how food is more than just cooking, but a practice of memory, identity and connection that asks us all, ‘How do we feed ourselves?’

When chef, food thinker, and owner of Food, I Love You, Mpho Phalane speaks about food; she doesn’t begin with recipes. She begins with a question: “How do we feed ourselves?” Because for her, food is much more than what is on our plates – it is memory, identity, and human connection.

During a discussion held by Mamakashaka and Friends on August 26, Phalane took the audience through her journey into cooking. From her grandmother’s house, burgers on the rooftop with swollen feet, lunches at UJ, to the beginning of Food, I Love You at Victoria Yards and transforming the former prison kitchen at Constitution Hill. For Phalane, practice has never been ‘just cooking’. It is asking deeper questions about belonging, care, resistance and returning to a sense of self.

Graphic of beans used in South African cooking.
Photos and graphic by: Hannah Brown

Phalane’s story is kneaded together through memories: A grandfather who taught her the importance of quality, a mother who made vision boards and introduced the power of visualisation, and childhood meals at her grandmother’s house. Food, I Love You began in her kitchen, cooking for friends, which grew into events and eventually into a business. All these memories are not just details; they show how food carries identity. 

When UJ first invited her to run a restaurant, she was “still in the process of finding this language.”  The pace was fast, food was functional, stripped of its intimacy. “This is not how I envision my practice looking”, she shared. “I want the moments of slower, the moments to learn”. Even a pot of beans carries memory – because for Phalane, food was never just about cooking. It is about the stories and politics simmering beneath the surface.  The journey of food is both intimate and political.

Across South Africa there is a growing hunger crisis. FoodForward SA’s State of Household Food Insecurity in South Africa Report 2026 showed that 70% of households experience moderate-to-severe food insecurity. Statistics South Africa data revealed that between 2019 and 2023, the number of food-insecure people rose from 14.25 million to 17.8 million, with severe food insecurity increasing from 5.2 million to 8 million. Around one in four households went an entire day without food at least once. The report states that, “due to conflict, climate change, economic downturns and global health crises. Rising food prices and supply chain disruptions have further undermined access for vulnerable populations.” 

An article by Critical African Studies, discusses the lack of availability of healthy food and stigma. Colonisation and Apartheid reshaped diets as, “indigenous and traditional crops in many communities in South Africa was adversely affected by their perception as ‘poverty foods’ or food for the elderly.” Traditional crops were excluded from the dominant food systems and could only be purchased in ‘informal’ food systems. As Phalane states, “there isn’t great systems around production. We are not demanding of our food enough”.

Ultra-processed food sales are high and dietary patterns are worsening with rising food insecurity. It is important to teach children about indigenous crops and focus on meals that are nourishing and communal. “I always knew disrupting the system has to happen on that level, we have to do it at school,” Phalane said. These are acts that push back against a system that makes cheap, unhealthy food the easiest option. Accessibility and storytelling are inseparable: “it is all about accessibility, really. Also, our need to be able to tell our stories and know our stories more”, she reflects.

Receipt given to audience members from Mpho Phalane,
during the talk hosted by Mamakashaka and Friends.
Photo by: Hannah Brown

Across Johannesburg, chefs and activists, including Chef Mokgadi Itsweng, are reviving indigenous crops such as sorghum, millet and cowpeas. Not only rooted in heritage and memory, as Itsweng states, “our indigenous plants are climate-smart. That’s something we can be proud of.” It is a practical response to a food system where 62% of South Africans cannot afford a healthy diet, and access to fruit and vegetables is far below global averages

Phalane’s practice reimagines kitchens as places for learning and transformation. As a space where process matters, where experimentation and failure are part of the work. “It was never one linear thing,” she said. “It is time for expansion.” 

Mpho Phalane’s approach is both simple and radical – to feed in ways that remember and create spaces that hold beauty and grief. 

After the discussion at Mamakashaka and Friends, a microphone was passed around to audience members while they reflected on their time spent at Food, I Love You, or on how their paths had crossed with Phalane. A young chef, who had worked at the restaurant, shared the influence Phalane had on her journey, highlighting her “style in terms of how you cook and how you embrace African ingredients differently”. Another audience member shared that Phalane has shown him how “slowness is necessary” and that “you create in a very authentic way, and it translates in your food as well”.


 Phalane asks the question, “Who feeds you?” 

As we move through life, through our different practices, what do you leave for yourself? This forces you to question identity, memory and connection – and could be an opening to imagining a different future for ‘How we feed ourselves’. 

Handwritten recipe for Sorghum Balls.
Photo by: Hannah Brown

FEATURED IMAGE: Graphic of beans used in South African cooking. Photos and graphic by: Hannah Brown

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